- 14/11/17 - People
You have all heard of friends, well that is what I want to talk about. Most people have friends - many or few, it depends. You know when I say you are who you hang around with? Here is what I mean.
For example, if your friends smoke, there is a 90% chance that you are going to smoke - that is what I believe. If your friend is rich, 90% chance you are too. Believe it or not, but it is actually true. That is why you can't just choose your friend because he or she is cool. What tends to happen is that some people are afraid of others, so they treat them as a friend (to not get into trouble). Which is really bad in my point of view. Also, some people just prefer to have one friend, but if you would tell some people that, they would start laughing.
There are some people out there who have bad friends but still don't care. I am going to give you a great tip: be careful with trusting your friend. Even if you believe in him very much, he can still let you down. Have you ever wondered: do I have a close friend that I can believe and trust? If you would ask someone "do you have a best friend and are you close?", they would obviously say yes, won't they? Sometimes what happens is that even if they are best friends they still at some point just leave each other. No matter how close you are to a friend, they can still let you down, which is a bit shocking!
Friends let you down if you pick the wrong one. It happens that you meet someone, then you think he or then she is really nice to you but then when you see them again they are perhaps smoking or something - what will you do then? That is why you have get to know them properly, otherwise you have to deal with it later. Sometimes what happens is that your parents try there hardest to keep you kind and nice but all of it can go with friends. So don't let your mum or dad down. Make them feel proud after all the hard work they did.
It is really hard to find a good friend for me. For some people it a piece of cake, which is not so good because they can affect you and you can affect them in a way that is not good. It depends really. If you have a strong personality, no-one can easily influence you. It is really true if you do not believe me try to be strong and see what happens.
I hope you have found this useful.